Mind your business, marriage is not an achievement, BBNaija’s Uriel tells critics
Big Brother Naija Reality TV star and chef, Uriel Oputa, popularly known as Uriel says critics questioning her single status should back-off as marriage is not an achievement and not meant for everyone.
Uriel who is also an entrepreneur and chef, took to her Instagram @urielmusicstar to address the issue said, marriage is not an achievement, the reason why she does not feel any pressure from the family or the public.
According to her, she does not need validation from social media to prove that she is married or not.
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She added that posting her partner or relationship status on social media was a prohibition for her.
“Marriage isn’t for everyone. If you think marriage is an achievement, that’s on you. How do you know I’m not married? Do you think everyone needs validation from social media?”, Uriel wrote.
She went ahead to reiterate that she would never post about her partner or relationship status on social media.
“I would never post my marriage or my partner’s full face here. Age-shaming and marriage-shaming is so 2018. Let’s maintain this energy and save the lives of young men and women”.
On the topic of trolls who bully people on social media, Uriel reassured them that she is bully-proof.
“Bullying doesn’t work with me. I went to an all-white school and I was the blackest kid that ever liveth”.
Meanwhile, the social media influencer has earlier expressed her taught and feelings on the topic of trolls, as well as those that were good in bullying others on social media, reassuring them that she happens to be a bully-proof.
In another post, Uriel stressed the importance of mutual respect in giving and receiving financial support, rather than expecting it as a matter of course.
Acknowledging economic challenges, she expressed her desire for a relationship where both partners care for each other, but lamented the prevalent materialistic attitudes.
She wrote:
“We are living in desperate Times. Ladies how did we get to the stage of asking a guy you just met to pay for your hair, so you can go on a Date with him.?? Why can’t we have respect for ourselves?? Why must we bill at every opportunity?? Even if he gives you money let it be out of Respect. Why are we putting price Tags on our Private Area?? Is it Plantain? We are living is Desperate Times Wickedness full every where The Rich and poor No dey smile. Pls evaluate your Favourite because they could potentially land you 6 ft under
Uriel became famous after appearing in Big Brother Naija season 2 in 2017, and ever since then, she has built a successful career in various fields.
